The Difference Between Accepting Who We Are And Striving to Become a Better Person

I’ve seen that happened, I’ve felt that way either. Generally, people want to be accepted as who they are. Either it’s the bad sides of them yet the good ones. I bet we all have heard these words comin’ out of nowhere:

“This is me. If you can’t accept me just the way I am, go the f*ck out of my way!”

If you realize the bad side of you, have you ever thought--maybe just once at a time—that you actually want to become a better person of you, rather than forcing people to accept you anyway?

I’ve mentioned it, and still rely on those words: “everyone have that ‘standart point’ that no matter how they seem to change, they will reach that point back in return”

People change, that’s one thing I know for sure. But where the ‘change’ leads you to, is what matters the most. Whether it gets you higher, or make you fall on to the ground. I’ve heard from somewhere that people actually never change, they just pretend like they do. The good thing is, if you pretend like you’re changing to be so much better than before, you might forget that you actually pretend.

Because you know, it’s a good feeling; realizing that you’ve done such good things.

I know, I know, it’s kind of sucks knowing that people want you to be somebody else instead of yourself in general. But if they actually want to see you better, don’t you ever think about it—like once in a moment? There would always be people who are gonna judge you. It’s all your choice to take it as.

..and I’d rather to take it as a lesson. Because I’d always like to increase the quality of my self—yet, we are not living in our own world.

Becoming a better me, is such an accomplishment that life could ever granted. It’s our right to stop caring about what other people think of us, but perhaps we just need to give it a little time—to pick some lessons out of it.

At least, you’re trying. You make an effort which shows that you mean it. You notice all your lacks and you don’t want to make them stay the same.

You’re gonna find the one who will accept you just the way you are. But don’t you ever want to become a better one, right before she/he comes? Or maybe she/he is already there all this time.

Be a better person of you—but still doesn’t make you less real. Be better just for the sake of being better.