We'll Never Find The Right One

Let go of the wrong person and find the right one, They said.

If only it is as simple as how it sounds. Because it's funny yet ironic how a person whom we define as the wrong one is the one whom we think is right at the very first place. Everyone have the same potential to hurt any human being, don't they? Then why are we thinking that we'll ever find one that will always do us good?

Get over it and move your ass on, They said.

It always takes time, I know. We can't force everything that's not meant to be. We could never forget the things that once happened, we could only pretend like we do—until we get used to the scars which the time has left us with.

You'll find the one who is willing to stay in your life, forever. They said.

Tell me, how long does 'forever' takes? Why are we blaming the one who only passed by—wishing them to stay a long while—when we know it's their right to wander, and in the end we got nothing to demand, at all?

Will we ever find the right one? I asked you.

We will always have excuses to doubt about anything. Every single thing. I believe somehow, no matter how far we look for something best, we could never find one which is really best. As well as the right people that I first discussed. The main case overall. No matter how far we look for it, we're never gonna find one. 

I know it's way too blurry. Let me tell you something which you might already knew.

You might love someone, right now. The one whom you call boyfriend/girlfriend. The one whom you believe that she/he is the one you'll spend the rest of your life with. There always the thought that arises as they make you mad, disappointed, or anything you dislike. She/he doesn't love me that much, you told so to yourself. And then you get miserable by it.

But again, people make mistake, and it's gonna change the way you think towards them. People will keep on making mistakes, as the time still ticking—as the sun still shining. No matter how long we seek, we'll never find 'the right one'. Because the right one is the one whom we define as the right one. We define them so. We know that nobody is perfect. And we know that even the one we love, make mistakes too.